I take no offense

My prayer for this lifetime: Please help me learn to take no offense, to become as tolerant as a plant. Please help me see how divinity is working through this person or situation to help me grow into my higher self.

To the degree that I am offended, I commit myself to suffering. Sometimes I feel offended and that I need to teach the other person what they did wrong. This usually ends up multiplying problems because that individual digs their heels in. And then they are offended too and the suffering multiplies. If we see each other as ordinary, we can easily fall into a feeling of superiority and that we need to teach, but can we see the divine in each person and especially in those that offended us so that we soften this sense of “I need to teach them.” Instead, I will be in a place of humility and tolerance and perhaps invite the situation to teach me.

I’d love for this to be a dialogue, please comment below if you have anything to add.

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Yoga, Horses and Divinity

The world is an external manifestation of what is inside. What we see is a perception through the lens we created through thoughts, ideas, and values. We can choose to see the divine behind everything or not. The results of that decision is either to feel entirely supported or completely alone.


Why don’t we choose to live simply in the support of the Highest?  The horse above, and your pets and all the wildlife, are not bound to the dramatic news everyday, and even if they are feeling the effects of climate chaos, they don’t choose to suffer over it, but rather embrace and respond to each present moment.

I challenge you to stand where your feet are.  To exist just in awareness for a few minutes, or many, each day.  Allow whatever is there to be there with an acceptance as if the experience, whether pleasant or not, is a gift to pull you closer to your Source.  Yoga is this connection to the Source.

This is what I practice while working with horses.  Each act is an attempt to pull the horse into a deeper and more trusting relationship with me, whether the act is rewarding good behavior or redirecting something a little less desirable.  I aspire to learn from horses the humbleness of collaborating with what horses consider predators and the ability to not take offense at those less-desired behaviors, because  horses, like all beings, only do what they think they have to do to survive.